Dear Mandy: How do I grab him in a hug...?

Dear Mandy, I desperately want to wrap my arms around his muscular, manly body. But how do I grab him in a hug without a specific reason? -Turned-on

Dear Turned-on, It sounds like you're more concerned with his muscle matter than you are with his personality or intellect. We've all been there, so here's the thing: he's male. He's not going to turn you down. You aren't going to have an issue getting your arms around that rock solid piece of man. If it's the method you're worried about, then here's some advice other than wearing a free hug t-shirt: Pretend you think he's someone else. See a cute guy in the library? No problem! Go up and wrap your arms around those broad shoulders and pretend like you know the guy. If you're lucky, his confusion could turn into a first date.

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